Dreams To Do

Reset.

When a tragedy shakes you to the core, it opens your eyes. It forces you to step outside your normal way of thinking and refocus on life – on what truly matters.

Life isn’t about stuff.
It isn’t about wants and it isn’t about what you do.
It’s about feelings and people and LOVE.
It’s about never taking a single moment for granted.

I’ve spent the last few days oozing sadness & empathy for Newtown and our nation, gratefulness for my life, and love for my family and friends. Minuscule things that drove me crazy just the other week are now meaningless nothings. Right now I’m not worrying about the future, my dreams, little stressers. Instead I’m worrying about NOW, about my children, about my husband, and I’m focusing on love and all that I have in this moment.

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It’s unfortunate, but sometimes it takes a tragedy to reset our lives – to put us back on course – to help us focus on what really matters.

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  • http://alazycrazylife.blogspot.com/ beckyj @ alazycrazylife

    Very well said, I totally agree. Lorelai was crying and grabbing at my leg while I was frantically trying to get dinner ready tonight, but instead of getting frustrated about it, I just picked her up and held her. That was what was most important right then, and this whole tragedy really gave me perspective.

  • http://alazycrazylife.blogspot.com/ beckyj @ alazycrazylife

    Very well said, I totally agree. Lorelai was crying and grabbing at my leg while I was frantically trying to get dinner ready tonight, but instead of getting frustrated about it, I just picked her up and held her. That was what was most important right then, and this whole tragedy really gave me perspective.

  • http://www.palmtreemama.wordpress.com/ Fiona

    It is sad that it takes moments like this to get us to focus on the important things, but it is so very true. I have had that sort of week too. Love all of your beautiful photos of your life right now. It looks so cozy and full of love.

  • http://www.palmtreemama.wordpress.com/ Fiona

    It is sad that it takes moments like this to get us to focus on the important things, but it is so very true. I have had that sort of week too. Love all of your beautiful photos of your life right now. It looks so cozy and full of love.

  • http://www.pecklife.com/ Emily @ PeckLife.com

    It is so sad! I hope you guys have a lovely holiday and get to spend lots of family time together! Is that your cute house? I LOVE the outside of it!! :)

    • http://www.dreamstodo.com/ Ariel @ Dreams To Do

      Yes, that’s my cute lil house – we love it. :-) I hope you guys have a VERY Merry Christmas!

  • http://www.pecklife.com/ Emily @ PeckLife.com

    It is so sad! I hope you guys have a lovely holiday and get to spend lots of family time together! Is that your cute house? I LOVE the outside of it!! :)

  • http://www.dreamstodo.com/ Ariel @ Dreams To Do

    Yes, that’s my cute lil house – we love it. :-) I hope you guys have a VERY Merry Christmas!